Taken for granted
Feelings: discouraged, deflated, resentful
Needs: appreciation, acknowledgment, mutuality, fairness
Feelings: discouraged, deflated, resentful
Needs: appreciation, acknowledgment, mutuality, fairness
Stop touching me!
Feelings: irritated, vulnerable, overwhelmed
Needs: focus, reassurance, rest, rejuvination
Feelings: irritated, vulnerable, overwhelmed
Needs: focus, reassurance, rest, rejuvination
She didn't get enough hugs growing up.
Feelings: exasperated, sympathetic
Needs: fairness, growth
Feelings: exasperated, sympathetic
Needs: fairness, growth
See, how nice you are today! Why can't you always be nice like this?
Feelings: relieved, pleased
Needs: harmony, caring, respect
Feelings: relieved, pleased
Needs: harmony, caring, respect
Ripped off
Feelings: furious, overwhelmed, shocked
Needs: fairness, honesty, trust
Feelings: furious, overwhelmed, shocked
Needs: fairness, honesty, trust
Racists should be round up and shot!
Feelings: rage, appalled
Needs: respect, harmony
Feelings: rage, appalled
Needs: respect, harmony
Patronized
Feelings: disturbed, appalled,
Needs: consideration, honor, to be seen/heard
Feelings: disturbed, appalled,
Needs: consideration, honor, to be seen/heard
Overpowered
Feelings: distressed, confused, anxious
Needs: support, fairness, respect, consideration
Feelings: distressed, confused, anxious
Needs: support, fairness, respect, consideration
Misunderstood
Feelings: disheartened, angst
Needs: understanding, to be seen/heard
Feelings: disheartened, angst
Needs: understanding, to be seen/heard
Men drive sports-cars because they're overcompensating for shortcomings.
Feelings: envious, resentful
Needs: integrity, to be seen/known
Feelings: envious, resentful
Needs: integrity, to be seen/known
Manipulated
Feelings: angry, scared, disoriented,
Needs: autonomy, honesty, trust, respect
Feelings: angry, scared, disoriented,
Needs: autonomy, honesty, trust, respect
Look what you did! What were you thinking?!
Feelings: disappointed, anxious
Needs: trust, safety, competence
Feelings: disappointed, anxious
Needs: trust, safety, competence